Your boyfriend has to shake you awake because you’re crying and screaming in your sleep. For hours after every time you seem him pass you in the hall of the dorm you jump every time someone walks past you. You flinch when your boyfriend who you love and trust reaches towards you. A licensed psychologist diagnosed you with posttraumatic stress disorder. You lay awake for most of the night haunted by the memoires and when you finally fall asleep you toss and turn and scream and cry as the memories haunt your dreams. Every time you hear his voice you feel paralyzed and you start to shake as anger and fear consumes your body.
Despite all of this people you called your friends don’t believe you when you say you were raped because the monster who did this to you has convinced them of your innocence and they all think you just have buyers remorse. Regret doesn’t give you posttraumatic stress disorder but monsters that prey on drunken girls do. I said no over and over again but he ignored me and did what he wanted. The night lasted forever and all I could think about was the knife he carried everywhere with him. My mind when blank and my body went numb as he shoved my head down over and over again. I stared at the sheets with blank eyes as he pushed my back down. I guess for him sex with a girl whose body is limp and unmoving is hot. I wonder if he cared that I didn’t participate in any way. I wonder if he liked hearing me repeat, “stop. No! No!” over and over again.
He barricaded me in after it was over and pinned my between the wall and his body and slept soundly as I stared at the wall numb and empty. I wish I did more to stop him. I wish I screamed louder. I hate him but I’m not going to let him rule my life anymore. He is the monster that lurks in the dark and haunts my dreams but I refuse to cower like a child anymore. He does not own me. Despite everything he did to me I have found love and happiness. My worth was not stolen from me. He took my virginity but he did not take my ability to love, live, or to be happy. I am whole, happy, and loved. He is broken, sick, and disgusting. I am the powerful one not him. I have love which is something he will never have.
One day he will realize just how empty and heartless he really is.